Johnny Turns 5

I can’t believe our baby is 5!  Where has the time gone?  Each day with Johnny just flies by.  He is a delight to be around.  He is tender and enthusiastic and still thinks most days are “the best day ever”.   He tells me almost daily how grateful he is to have a family like ours.  In turn I tell him “oh buddy, you have no idea how grateful we are to have YOU, our Johnny boo boo” as I hold back tears.

Johnny is finishing his last year of preschool and absolutely loves school.  Everyday he is greeted happily by all of his friends.  He is eager to learn, to work, to earn money, to play, to help others, to tell a joke, and of course, to find shiny rocks.  His favorite pastime is to look for treasures and/or hunt for worms, snakes, and lizards.  He had a lot of time this summer with daddy honing his skills.  I suppose that is when his love for reptiles took over.

Naturally, Johnny requested to have a reptile birthday.  He hand picked all of his guests and asked for Kim (from Kim’s Cold Blooded Creatures) to perform a live reptile show.  At one point, he had at least 5 snakes crawling on him – a dream come true.  He also has been asking for a pet gecko for over a year.  I told him when he was 5, he could take on that responsibility.  That came sooner than I wanted.  So yes, the morning of his actual birthday I took Johnny to a pet store in Salt Lake to choose an awesome leopard gecko he named Strike.  There’s never been anyone more deserving.

Johnny recently told me he is a “sporty kind of dude”.  He loves tee-ball, soccer, swimming, riding his bike, running competitions, skiing, and recently his gymnastics ninja class.  He always wants to be a good team player, even if that means not wanting to score a goal against one of his best friends.

At home, Johnny completes our family.  He brings the wild, the happy, the tenderness we all need.  He and Charlotte are usually the best of friends and he still will always take her side first out of pure love and loyalty.  He also isn’t afraid to rile her up like every good brother should.  

Dear Johnny, happy birthday!  We all couldn’t love you any more.  Thank you for that last 5 years.  You can stop growing now.

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Rome, Sorrento, Paris

John took a few months off this summer and we got to plan a dreamy trip to Europe.  It started with Rome; three days and possibly a lifetime of history for Charlotte and Johnny.  The Colosseum and the Vatican blew our minds and helped us cure our jet lag.  The Trevi Fountain accepted our wishes with a coin toss, especially Johnny’s as he snuck a coin to take home.  The Spanish Steps made us feel like we were in the hub of all things Europe – alive and vibrant with street performers and vendors.  Charlotte and I loved window shopping and chatting about the fancy displays.  By the the end of every day, we were ready to wind down at a quiet restaurant and enjoy a long Italian meal.  We celebrated our ninth anniversary here where we walked to a lovely restaurant and spent the evening with Charlotte and Johnny enjoying life, love, and culture.  Our cup runneth over with gratitude, especially to have these moments together as a family.

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We then headed south to Sorrento – a place we had only ever seen in pictures.  It’s hard to put it into words, but it’s like the perfect “Mexico meets Europe”.  The ocean, the culture, the food, the doing nothing.  Our hotel, Grand Hotel Ambasciatori, was magical.  The day started with an amazing breakfast overlooking the ocean and Mount Vesuvius, then a quick change into our swimsuits and down the elevator to the ocean.  Instantly the kids disappeared into their own world exploring the rocks and swimming in the calm water.  John and I could actually relax on a lounge chair observing them from afar.  When it got hot, we took dips in the ocean and swam around in what felt like a giant swimming pool.  The evenings were filled with amazing meals and sunsets that took our breath away.  It was bliss.

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We did a day at Capri and the sites were amazing.  There was also a day at Pompeii.  The kids soaked in the history in kid-doses and Charlotte impressed us with the depth of her questions.  Johnny (still only 4) was mostly into his Italian Fanta and finding rocks. 

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And then there was Paris…

It was a short stop but the best way to end.  We spent half a day at the Louvre for Charlotte.  Johnny maxed out after two hours.  Mama and Johnny played in the fountains while daddy and Charlotte took in more.  What an experience to see our sweet 7-year-old Charlotte wanting more art and history.  Afterward, we stumbled upon a fair at the Tuileries with rides and lollipops and all the things.  Paris never disappoints.  Our last dinner in Europe was spent at a perfect Parisian bistro where we commemorated this incredible journey as a family, and the kids ate snails 😉

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Spring

It’s been a busy spring around Mellor Ranch.  The snow lasted way too long, but we tried to be outside as much as possible.  For Mother’s Day, John and the kids got me a new camera lens so much has been documented.  I still haven’t figured out how to capture the fireflies, but the last photo below was my best attempt.

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Healdsburg

John and I have wanted to do a “wine country” trip for a while and finally had the chance to get away without kids for a couple days this May.  We went to Healdsburg (same general area as Napa and Sonoma) and loved it.  We enjoyed great restaurants and a couple of our favorite wineries that were beautiful in person.  It was a short, but sweet, getaway and we hope to get back soon.20190521-JC3A974820190521-JC3A975720190522-JC3A976520190522-JC3A978020190522-JC3A978720190522-JC3A979020190522-JC3A980620190522-JC3A979820190522-JC3A9817CC105496-AEEB-41C5-9FF3-950974062439B1A14977-3F40-4307-B517-0A8ED4E3B1713357CC5B-A1B0-46C6-8B87-1FB96285292295F4161E-3466-4A94-BE97-6FD4CAC80F16IMG_5052

Spring Break in Punta Mita 2019

We snuck away from the endless winter in Park City to get warm in Punta Mita.  The days were filled with beach, pool, snacks then repeat.  Johnny couldn’t get enough exploring for sea shells, rocks, and crabs.  Charlotte was in her mermaid element and also enjoyed collecting anything shiny on the beach.  She even set up shop at one point selling or trading her collections.  John and the kids created a new pool game called “Stinky Gorilla” where the kids would attack John and he would throw them across the pool.  I think John looked at it as a way to get some exercise, and the kids just thought it was fun!  I watched from afar and had several moments of a new found freedom with these adventurous, independent kids.

One highlight to remember was our family surf session.  All of us went out to catch a few small waves with surf guides.  John, Charlotte, and I stood up several times.  Johnny still might be a little young to stand up, but at least he got out on a board.  He ended up exploring the beach and was ecstatic to find a live sea urchin.

We were also thrilled to have some friends in Punta Mita at the same time.  One of Johnny’s best friends, Jane, and her family came to visit along with another fun Park City family.  The adults were able to steal away one evening to have a lovely dinner at our favorite spot, Sufi, while the kids stayed home to play.

Punta Mita continues to steal our hearts.  It is truly our happy place where we can completely relax.  There must be something in the air or the margaritas that keeps us coming back.

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Charlotte Turns 7

Charlotte… she’s like the sun, moon, and stars all at the same time.

She enters a room and fills it with light.  At times, I need to find shade but I’m always inspired by her confidence which allows her to see every new experience as an exciting conquest.  To her, this is Charlotte’s world and we’re all lucky to be in it.  She’s inquisitive, smart, creative, outgoing and seems to have endless energy.

When the night comes, Charlotte calms me with her wisdom.  Her favorite book right now is 100 Most Influential People and she asks daddy to read it to her every night.  Her questions are always from a place much older than 7.  Afterward, she asks for snuggles from mama so we can have some girl talk.  She likes to chat about her friends and how to handle recess situations.  For instance, she started a “Girls’ Club” this spring and was insistent on the rules and being chief.  She listens and tries, but ultimately her inner drive takes over which sometimes just doesn’t fit inside a 7-year-old body.

Charlotte fills her days with school and many after-school activities.  She just completed her first year of dual immersion.  She loves Spanish and is always up for more with daddy at dinner or teaching Johnny and I in the car!  She also enjoys ice-skating, skiing, gymnastics, theater, swimming, and (sometimes) piano.  At home, she loves legos, barbies, crafts, making potions, our undivided attention, and playing with Johnny.

Dear Charlotte, I love you beyond measure.  Happy 7th birthday.  Thank you for teaching me and letting me witness you take on the world.   I’m honored to be your mother.

Below are pictures from her actual birthday on April 3rd when we still had two feet of snow outside and then her birthday party in May when we invited all of her friends over for a Harry Potter themed party with a climbing wall.

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Disney Cruise

For winter break we decided to try a Disney cruise through the Caribbean.  Our main motivation was to let Johnny experience some Disney magic since he was too young to remember our first and only trip to Disneyland.  The cruise was Marvel Day At Sea which meant superheroes were everywhere.  Of course, Charlotte was able to get in on the magic when she met and twirled with the princesses.

Our first stop was the island of Cozumel where we were able to kiss, hold, and swim with stingrays.  Afterward we found a beach with a giant floating Wibit out in the ocean.  All four of us played on this thing for hours laughing each time one of us slipped off – probably my favorite moment of the cruise.

The days at sea were filled with lots of people and then even more people.  The kids didn’t mind as movies were blasting from the giant screen.  They also they visited kids club a few times where they made slime, had superhero training, and even became official Marvel Agents.

The evenings on the cruise were quite a delight.  We enjoyed dinner in a different themed dining room each night and also went to the live theater where we saw Cinderella and Tangled.  The kids were in awe and a little Disney magic was felt by all of us.

The last stop was at Disney’s private island, Castaway Cay.  We loved having a day with a little less people as we played in the sand and swam in the calm ocean.  Charlotte played alone for hours making us pretend-stew with sand and leaves.  Johnny spent a lot of time underwater looking for seashells.  John and I were happy to have some reprieve from the ship.

Would we do it again, no.  Did Charlotte and Johnny think it was an amazing experience, yes.  And that, I guess, is what parents do.

Things to remember:  a night in Miami, Johnny meeting all of his favorite superheroes, popcorn at the movies and live theater, the stair climbs, dinner with the Tangled cast, passing Cuba, standing in line to meet princesses, ice cream machine, loud movies at the pool, lots of people, fireworks, pirate night, Johnny and Charlotte dressed up as Captain America and American Dream, bubble baths, our waiter and waitress, mama’s anxiety, missing our connecting flight in Atlanta (maybe we shouldn’t remember that one), Disney magic felt by all of us.

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Below are pictures from the stingray experience:

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