So I guess the Mexican flag is also our family’s Christmas flag (at least it’s green and red). We enjoyed another peaceful seven days in Mexico with just our team Mellor to celebrate each others’ company along with the Christmas holiday. Santa came on a jet ski this year and brought a few toys for our stockings. We mostly remember swimming in the ocean, digging in the sand, eating amazing meals (including crickets), talking and playing, talking and playing. And that was our Christmas 2020. (If I could, I would put it in a bag and freeze it forever.)
This year has definitely been different … let’s just call it the year of COVID (dun dun dun). Most everything has been affected, especially travel. We had big plans to celebrate our 10 year wedding anniversary in Bora Bora (a bucket list trip for us); we were even going to bring the kids. But, that just wasn’t going to happen this year. Luckily, we were able to get away to one of our favorite spots in Mexico. For just a minute, we felt free from the stress of this crazy year. Socially distanced time in the sun, sand, ocean and a few margaritas fed our wanderlust souls as we celebrated 10 years of love and marriage. What a beautiful life we’ve created, John. Cheers to many more years!
We had the wonderful opportunity to go to Kauai in October for John’s niece’s wedding. Hawaii + family = bliss.
Most days we woke up before the sun to hunt for shells and critters in the tide pools, sometimes in our pajamas. As we made sand castles, we watched the clock, waiting for Starbucks to open. We eventually forgot about time and soaked in every juicy moment. There were crabs, sea cucumbers, geckos, fish, a giant toad, and breaks for shaved ice to top it all off. Our back flips and diving skills were perfected and the whole family even went down the water slide.
One of our favorite days was an incredible hike up to Secret Falls with Uncle Roy, Aunt Patrice, and cousins Timothy and Jesse. It started with a kayak trip down the river and then hiking for miles through mud … literally. We finally arrived at the Secret Falls (which it turns out aren’t so secret) where we took a dip to clean off and enjoyed a picnic lunch. It was a messy, magical day!
Of course the icing on the cake, was the wedding. Emily and Jordan chose a special spot in the woods of Kauai where they had a lovely ceremony and were pronounced husband and wife. Afterward, we all spent the evening at a beautiful dinner where Charlotte and Johnny got to act like grown ups (with their own coloring books) to celebrate the newlyweds. We were amazed to see so much love. It will forever be engrained in our memory. We were grateful to witness such a special event.
Congratulations to the newlyweds and thank you, Hawaii, for all of your beauty!
John took a few months off this summer and we got to plan a dreamy trip to Europe. It started with Rome; three days and possibly a lifetime of history for Charlotte and Johnny. The Colosseum and the Vatican blew our minds and helped us cure our jet lag. The Trevi Fountain accepted our wishes with a coin toss, especially Johnny’s as he snuck a coin to take home. The Spanish Steps made us feel like we were in the hub of all things Europe – alive and vibrant with street performers and vendors. Charlotte and I loved window shopping and chatting about the fancy displays. By the the end of every day, we were ready to wind down at a quiet restaurant and enjoy a long Italian meal. We celebrated our ninth anniversary here where we walked to a lovely restaurant and spent the evening with Charlotte and Johnny enjoying life, love, and culture. Our cup runneth over with gratitude, especially to have these moments together as a family.
We then headed south to Sorrento – a place we had only ever seen in pictures. It’s hard to put it into words, but it’s like the perfect “Mexico meets Europe”. The ocean, the culture, the food, the doing nothing. Our hotel, Grand Hotel Ambasciatori, was magical. The day started with an amazing breakfast overlooking the ocean and Mount Vesuvius, then a quick change into our swimsuits and down the elevator to the ocean. Instantly the kids disappeared into their own world exploring the rocks and swimming in the calm water. John and I could actually relax on a lounge chair observing them from afar. When it got hot, we took dips in the ocean and swam around in what felt like a giant swimming pool. The evenings were filled with amazing meals and sunsets that took our breath away. It was bliss.
We did a day at Capri and the sites were amazing. There was also a day at Pompeii. The kids soaked in the history in kid-doses and Charlotte impressed us with the depth of her questions. Johnny (still only 4) was mostly into his Italian Fanta and finding rocks.
And then there was Paris…
It was a short stop but the best way to end. We spent half a day at the Louvre for Charlotte. Johnny maxed out after two hours. Mama and Johnny played in the fountains while daddy and Charlotte took in more. What an experience to see our sweet 7-year-old Charlotte wanting more art and history. Afterward, we stumbled upon a fair at the Tuileries with rides and lollipops and all the things. Paris never disappoints. Our last dinner in Europe was spent at a perfect Parisian bistro where we commemorated this incredible journey as a family, and the kids ate snails 😉
John and I have wanted to do a “wine country” trip for a while and finally had the chance to get away without kids for a couple days this May. We went to Healdsburg (same general area as Napa and Sonoma) and loved it. We enjoyed great restaurants and a couple of our favorite wineries that were beautiful in person. It was a short, but sweet, getaway and we hope to get back soon.
We snuck away from the endless winter in Park City to get warm in Punta Mita. The days were filled with beach, pool, snacks then repeat. Johnny couldn’t get enough exploring for sea shells, rocks, and crabs. Charlotte was in her mermaid element and also enjoyed collecting anything shiny on the beach. She even set up shop at one point selling or trading her collections. John and the kids created a new pool game called “Stinky Gorilla” where the kids would attack John and he would throw them across the pool. I think John looked at it as a way to get some exercise, and the kids just thought it was fun! I watched from afar and had several moments of a new found freedom with these adventurous, independent kids.
One highlight to remember was our family surf session. All of us went out to catch a few small waves with surf guides. John, Charlotte, and I stood up several times. Johnny still might be a little young to stand up, but at least he got out on a board. He ended up exploring the beach and was ecstatic to find a live sea urchin.
We were also thrilled to have some friends in Punta Mita at the same time. One of Johnny’s best friends, Jane, and her family came to visit along with another fun Park City family. The adults were able to steal away one evening to have a lovely dinner at our favorite spot, Sufi, while the kids stayed home to play.
Punta Mita continues to steal our hearts. It is truly our happy place where we can completely relax. There must be something in the air or the margaritas that keeps us coming back.
For winter break we decided to try a Disney cruise through the Caribbean. Our main motivation was to let Johnny experience some Disney magic since he was too young to remember our first and only trip to Disneyland. The cruise was Marvel Day At Sea which meant superheroes were everywhere. Of course, Charlotte was able to get in on the magic when she met and twirled with the princesses.
Our first stop was the island of Cozumel where we were able to kiss, hold, and swim with stingrays. Afterward we found a beach with a giant floating Wibit out in the ocean. All four of us played on this thing for hours laughing each time one of us slipped off – probably my favorite moment of the cruise.
The days at sea were filled with lots of people and then even more people. The kids didn’t mind as movies were blasting from the giant screen. They also they visited kids club a few times where they made slime, had superhero training, and even became official Marvel Agents.
The evenings on the cruise were quite a delight. We enjoyed dinner in a different themed dining room each night and also went to the live theater where we saw Cinderella and Tangled. The kids were in awe and a little Disney magic was felt by all of us.
The last stop was at Disney’s private island, Castaway Cay. We loved having a day with a little less people as we played in the sand and swam in the calm ocean. Charlotte played alone for hours making us pretend-stew with sand and leaves. Johnny spent a lot of time underwater looking for seashells. John and I were happy to have some reprieve from the ship.
Would we do it again, no. Did Charlotte and Johnny think it was an amazing experience, yes. And that, I guess, is what parents do.
Things to remember: a night in Miami, Johnny meeting all of his favorite superheroes, popcorn at the movies and live theater, the stair climbs, dinner with the Tangled cast, passing Cuba, standing in line to meet princesses, ice cream machine, loud movies at the pool, lots of people, fireworks, pirate night, Johnny and Charlotte dressed up as Captain America and American Dream, bubble baths, our waiter and waitress, mama’s anxiety, missing our connecting flight in Atlanta (maybe we shouldn’t remember that one), Disney magic felt by all of us.
Below are pictures from the stingray experience:
Once again we were able to talk Santa into meeting us in Mexico. We celebrated Christmas for about an hour and then enjoyed seven days together as a family in one of our favorite places.
Rosewood Mayakoba was such a great place to return to. It’s the kind of place where everyone knows your kids’ names and it feels like a big family. Upon arrival, we rode a little boat through the lagoon to our room while looking for baby crocodiles. From there, we tried to slowly inhale each breath of warm, humid air.
We chased butterflies and found flowers on our way to breakfast… after the kids had already jumped in the pool. We took walks to the beach through the “jungle” where we saw coatis (a Mexican critter that’s kind of like a raccoon). The beach had an endless amount of seashells for Johnny to find which was his main focus most days. He dug so hard in the sand that his fingertips were raw. Charlotte oversaw daddy’s sand castle construction site where she cracked the whip on all of us – we successfully built a pretty awesome Christmas tree in the sand. Lunch time consisted of nachos, hot dogs, and quesadillas on the beach. I think we applied sunscreen seven times a day and got pretty good at it, but the kids never liked it. Our dinners were filled with delicious food and a relaxed ambiance… so relaxed that Johnny fell asleep at every dinner or maybe he was just wiped from the sun, pool, and sand. We didn’t mind. It’s a good sign of Mexico.
We left Rosewood a couple times to explore. Our first outing was a boat trip along the coast by Tulum where we were able to snorkel and see a sea turtle, stingray, and moray eel. Charlotte and daddy explored farther to see a starfish and a few more strange ocean creatures. Our kids (and us) were blown away with this amazing Wild Kratts episode brought to us by Mexico. Afterward, we relaxed and enjoyed a lovely lunch and Johnny fell asleep once again on my lap as we sailed back to Playa.
Our second outing was to swim with dolphins. We’ve done this before but it’s been a couple of years so Johnny had mostly forgotten. We were awestruck with these amazing creatures. Our faces tell the story much better than words (below). I think Johnny and Charlotte do an excellent job of bringing out our curiosity or amazement or maybe just our inner child. It’s a beautiful thing to experience life with these brave kids.
To sum up, we had a blast and still really like the idea of Mexico for Christmas. There are more moments and warm fuzzies than words and pictures can ever explain, but are felt deep down. We hope these are building blocks for our kids and us. Each day together is a gift and that is all John and I will ever want for Christmas.
Things to remember: Alebrijes, bike rides, dinner in the garden, Wolfy and Chiquita, Charlotte making sushi, Big Boom, the rain storm, Sebastian the iguana, dolphin foot-push, stock market crash, Coco on the beach, two magical kids.
Below are the dolphin pictures (I had a hard time eliminating):
Little Rock, Arkansas has our hearts in every way. We were lucky enough to spend Thanksgiving with Uncle Roy and Aunt Patrice in this lovely, heart-felt place where the woods are deep and the people are abundantly warm. It’s strange how time can slow down and the edge wears off… I wonder if the south holds this virtue or maybe it’s just Roy and Patrice.
John loved showing the kids where he grew up, went fishing, and looked for critters. John, Roy, and Johnny disappeared often looking for anything that moved. Charlotte and Patrice were able to work on knitting pot holders and preparing Thanksgiving dinner while talking about all the things that matter. I was a grateful bystander witnessing depth and goodness in every way. As I always say… please slow it down. There’s a magic that exists in Little Rock and especially with Roy and Patrice. I hope we can put a stone of it in our pocket until next time.
Things to remember: The Little House, bird watching, breakfast next door, Ozark Outdoor Supply, salamanders, Pinnacle Mountain, Roy’s place, beehives, Leawood, Timothy, yoga room, hummus, corn hole, woods, critters, fall leaves, Big Damn Bridge, Thanksgiving, Charlotte losing a tooth eating brussels sprouts, family, gratitude.