San Jose del Cabo (November 2017)

San Jose del Cabo (November 2017)

The sun, the sand, and great friends made Cabo an amazing trip for our family.  There were six adults and five children which made for a perfect vacation ratio.  Both of our kids had one of their best buddies to play with all day while enjoying a secluded beach and house in Mexico.  All the adults were on the same page; wake up with the sun/kids, coffee, apply sunscreen, chase after kids, prevent fights and drowning, more sunscreen, and repeat.  The evenings got a little more quiet as the sun went down.  We were able to enjoy a cocktail and great conversation while the kids continued to play and our dinners went late into the night.  The days blended into one which is the magic of Mexico.  We feel grateful to have friends to do this with and for the memories our kids made at their tender age… This posse abroad is just getting started.

Things to remember:  Sunrises and sunsets, tide-pooling for sea creatures, Flora Farms, Johnny falling in the pond, being off the grid for water and electricity (and running out of both), John motorbiking in Baja, a continual face-off with the waves, secret plans by Charlotte and Pax, adult dinner at Acre (miscalculating the exchange rate by a zero – oops!), 9 Palms Beach, massages, an epic bonfire on the beach, the stars, and so much more where words and pictures fall short.

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Paris in November

Paris in November seemed like a lovely idea.  John was working in Europe and after a long work trip, he asked me to meet him in Paris for the weekend.  I obliged.

It was a quick trip so we tried to stay on Utah time as much as possible, meaning we stayed up until 3 a.m. and slept until noon (something we haven’t done since becoming parents).  We were finally able to do as Europeans do and eat dinner at 9 pm.  We found quaint, “locals only” types of restaurants and enjoyed talking the night away in dim candle light until closing.  We would then wander back to our hotel to enjoy a glass of wine and do the same for a few more hours.  It was thrilling to know this type of romance exists within us and in this beautiful city where we found many others feeling the same.

Things to remember:  The incredible Four Seasons Hotel George V in full Christmas regalia, John taking our kids with us through Polaroids he kept in his wallet, walking in the rain, slow dancing to Perfect, feeling extremely grateful.

When the mundane part of life creeps up on us, we know we will always have Paris.

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Johnny Turns 3

Johnny Turns 3

Our Johnny boy turns 3.  He continues to be our sweet, rough and tough little man.  His tender heart comes out just as much as his desire to roar, tackle, and prove his masculinity.  This is constantly shown with one of his main characteristics; protecting his older sister.  On a daily basis, Johnny will explain to Charlotte how he will punch monsters or bad strangers in order to save her.  He will also defend her wrong doings to us at any point, even if that involved a wrong directed at him.  In all cases, he will take her side.  He will put his arm around her if anything is scary or if she gets hurt.  We can all rest a little easier at night knowing Johnny will protect Charlotte for the rest of his life.  

Johnny is also still extremely affectionate to his mama and wants to protect me as well.  I like to say he’s a mama’s boy or maybe I just enjoy how much he wants me around or needs my help in order to be close or get a hug.  He tells me I’m beautiful and how happy he is to see me and loves to hold hands.  He will tenderly kiss my head just because.  My heart melts multiple times a day with this sweet little man.

We also get a dose of Johnny’s tough side regularly as he turns into a tiger everyday.  Roaring is a way he likes to introduce himself while showing his sharp claws.  He loves to run full speed at me or John and tackle us to the ground.  His favorite game to play is “pinned ya” which is basically rolling around on the ground until he is on top and has successfully “pinned ya” (from a scene in Lion King).  He has brought a roughness to our family which we embrace and has taught Charlotte a few new ways to be tough, get muddy, or take a punch 😉

Another striking characteristic of Johnny’s is his ability to be downright stubborn.  If his mind is made up, there is no changing it.  He cannot be talked into something or talked out of something; it simply has to be Johnny’s idea.  I have slowly learned how to walk away and know there is no winning this situation.  Mostly, I admire this strength and fortitude but it has stretched my parenting skills in a whole new way.  At one point I thought he was going to be the mild one, but this is proving not to be true.  Johnny and Charlotte together are a force to be reckoned with.

Johnny has had a few phases this past year I never want to forget:

First and foremost is his love for Nala, a white tiger stuffed animal named after Simba’s girlfriend in Lion King.  He claims to be her dad and takes very good care of her.  He takes her everywhere and often wraps her in a blanket to hold her.  It is beyond precious and warms my heart knowing whoever is in his life will be very lucky.

Second, his obsession with flashlights.  My goodness this boy loves a flashlight dark.  He has about five scattered throughout the house and is constantly asking “have you seen my black flashlight”.  He likes to pretend to go on a work trip and take the flashlight into a dark closet to hang out.  He even had one by his side during the solar eclipse just in case it got too dark outside.

Third, his love for making pancakes on the weekend with daddy.  He asks several times a week if it’s a “pancake day”.  He is re-teaching all of us how to truly enjoy simple things.

Lastly, singing “You Are My Sunshine” and “Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star” (video below).  He does this while standing on a rock, fireplace, or any form of a stage.  It’s adorable and makes his mama so happy (I like to think he does it just for me).

We love and adore our Johnny boy.  He’s completed our family in a way that words can’t describe.  We were excited to celebrate his third birthday on a warm sunny day in September.  Friends and family made him feel oh so special at his tractor themed party (pictures below).  We can’t wait for more with our Johnny!



Last July we were lucky enough to visit Bali.  John was working in Asia for a couple of  weeks and in-between Singapore and China he had a free weekend.  We decided to feed our wanderlust souls and meet at a tropical location in Southeast Asia.  Bali seemed a wild, enticing and obvious choice. 

Bali was amazingly complex with sandy beaches on the coast and rice paddies in the mountains with an underlying spiritual presence throughout.  The people were humble and kind.  I actually had my first experience with meditation here, thanks to John.  At one point I half jokingly said “we ate, prayed, and loved through Bali” as Julia Roberts once did 😉  We felt free and calm and in love.  We missed our kids but enjoyed our time alone in such a deeply foreign place.  We spent most of our time on the beach side in Nusa Dua but explored to Ubud for one day to see the monkeys and rice paddies.  Our short visit left us enthralled and hopefully coming back someday when we get that itch again to travel to the other side of the world.  

A few things to remember:  the Rock Bar that faces 1000’s of miles of open ocean, people flying kites, how they spelled taxi, feeling like ballers when we looked at our bank balance in Rupiah, and celebrating our anniversary for about the seventh time that summer.